By: Margyle
Everyone has travel horror stories or at least knows of someone who does. Getting scammed by swindlers or robbed by charlatans while on vacation can be a major downer, but so long as you walk away from it, it usually makes for a pretty good story later. I mean, who wants to have a perfect trip every time?
Maybe it’s just me, but I feel like travel is getting safer – at least in the traditional sense. I don’t know, perhaps I only talked to a bunch of downers before embarking in the early days of my travels or it could be that I was scared of my own shadow in the big wide world, but I don’t feel as threatened as I once did. Am I crazy? Probably.
Take my last trip abroad. I was fine! Granted I never went into any unsavoury areas or partook in any questionable exercises, but I generally don’t take the Icarus approach to travel and look at those who do and get burned with a ‘what did you expect?’ reaction. Even still, you have to figure walking the streets of Rome by the Coliseum with its thousands of tourists, it would be easy for someone to snatch something and run. Maybe I just wasn’t a good mark.
I think one reason I marvel at how nothing bad happened was because I was taking such a huge risk in the first place. You see, in my bag for 15 out of 25 days was the engagement ring I was going to propose to my now fiancée with. With my lack of trust in the hostels we were staying in (which, in fact were very safe – not to mention private rooms), I resorted to carrying it around in my backpack every day, anal and paranoid beyond belief that she would see it or someone would take it. Needless to say it wasn’t, which relieved me once it was firmly on her finger… for more reasons than one.
Like my previous trip to Europe, I also brought along a money belt my grandfather gave me before going to Spain. Unlike my last trip, I did not wear it even once, nor did I feel the need to. It could be due to my insistence on wearing my wallet in my front pocket or maybe the discreet manner in which I withdrew bills. Or maybe it’s that nowhere in Western Europe are as sketchy as Barcelona, but I had no issues when it came to pickpockets.
This leads me to wonder – are thieves getting lazier or smarter? Could it be thieves have realized stealing takes too much time and energy that could be spent seducing foreign girls trying to ‘find themselves?’ Or it could be crooks are now resorting to using computers to steal tourist bank information, only reserving physical encounters when some rube who sets their iPad down to eat their gelato.
So maybe travel isn’t getting any safer or thieves lazier, but it can feel that way if you adopt the right attitude. That way you can brag about how safe something is, without mentioning your paranoid vigilance, thus lulling others into false feelings of security that results in them being mugged and you getting to judge them for being stupid! Win/Win!
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“Getting scammed by swindlers or robbed by charlatans while on vacation can be a major downer, but so long as you walk away from it, it usually makes for a pretty good story later. I mean, who wants to have a perfect trip every time?” I LOVE this line! As travellers we are very conscious that we are vulnerable but secretly all hope that, as long as we don’t get hurt, we might have a story to tell later. I mean a blog post that says ‘I Was Robbed in Rio!!’ is going to get more hits than ‘I Ate Cake in Rio!!’.
Before I left to travel around South America I expected that at some point I would get robbed, I even took out an excruciatingly expensive travel insurance just for that reason. I hoped that when it happened it would be quick, that I would hand over my default wallet containing a few notes, and that there would be no knives or guns involved. I would walk away shaking and write a blog post about it.
I travelled for almost six months and had nothing to report. I was not robbed, my bag did not get sliced from underneath the seat of a bus, my ATM card was not cloned and I didn’t even get scammed by a taxi. Of course I was relieved about this, but in some ways I was disappointed. I feel like I have failed an initiation, what sort of traveller does NOT have a story of robbery in South America?!!
I do hope that the world is getting safer, and that tales of robbery and violence while travelling are on the decrease.
Haha awesome response! I know the feeling. You get so wrapped up in what everyone says about a place or just a basic statement of fact – you’re a tourist, it’s crowded and everyone is out to screw you – that you just kind of expect it to happen. You better believe it feels better by not getting robbed, but… At the same time… Don’t you feel like youre missing out on a part of the experience? Just a little?
Dunno if travel is statistically safer nowadays or not. I do know (first-hand) that it is still easy to get ripped off, if you let your guard down for even a moment: http://promise-to-travel.blogspot.com/2008/01/thursday-january-23-mike-49-pick.html
I guess it’s just that sense of interconnectedness that lulls you into a false sense of security – but I like to think things are getting better even if they are not… Less depressing that way!